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Saturday, June 21, 2008

Outsmart Procrastination 1-2-3

Do you hear yourself saying, 'I will do it later' more than you care to mention? You lose time and energy and achieve less as a result of putting things off. Do not let that dreaded procrastination bug get you down anymore. There are ways to beat it.

1. So how do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time, of course! Divide and conquer a large project by breaking it down into smaller, more manageable tasks. Start off slow using small baby steps. Going through the tasks one by one will be much less stressful and overwhelming than trying to get a large project finished all at once. And as soon as action has begun on a specific task, you just might find the project taking on a life of its own and actually becoming enjoyable.

2. Try completing a task immediately. Do not give it any thought. Just do it. This is a great way to get things done fast as you will not be spending time thinking about it beforehand. And it is a good way to prevent you from even thinking any thoughts about putting off the task for another day.

3. Reward yourself when you complete a task or a series of tasks. This is a step that many people forget to take into account. As an incentive and to boost motivation, give yourself a reward for accomplishing a task and accomplishing it on time. Whatever the reward may be, whether it is simply a positive affirmation or buying yourself a treat, make sure the reward is something that inspires and motivates you to get the job done. And remember to reward yourself throughout a project, not just at the end.

4. Create a to-do list. It is better to write tasks down then to have them sitting in our mind where they can get lost with all of our other thoughts. Write down all of the things you have been putting off and keep that list in view. As you complete each task, cross it off, and continue to go down the list. Keep a note pad handy to record tasks as you think of them. Keeping all of your projects on a central to-do list will prevent tasks from being forgotten. As you check items off your to-do list, you will be able to track projects and see the progress you are making.

5. Create a schedule and set deadlines. A task without a deadline is destined to be put off indefinitely. Scheduling is very helpful in getting tasks accomplished and it keeps projects on track. Make sure your scheduling is reasonable and not too stringent. Spread a large task out over several sessions. This will prevent you from getting bogged down with one large task or project thereby making it easier to want to put it off. Take 5-10 minutes at the end of each day to look over what you have accomplished for the day and get an idea of what you wish to accomplish the following day. Finally, make a weekly appointment with yourself to plan tasks for the upcoming week to follow through on your goals.

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6. If possible, do the worst, most difficult or uncomfortable task first and get it out of the way. Tackling that task will lift a weight off your chest and you will feel much more productive and willing to perform other tasks.

7. Whenever possible, eliminate distractions. Distractions are one of the biggest reasons tasks are not started or finished. In fact, you may find yourself looking for distractions to avoid working on tasks. Focus by turning off the television, cell phone, the Internet, etc. Clear off your work area. Try to keep things in your office and home in order. Keep it tidy and clean. Order helps to curb procrastination and a clean environment tends to create a clearer mind.

8. A good technique for outsmarting procrastination is goal visualization. When we procrastinate, we put off achieving an end result. Many times that end result is very appealing. The result could be peace of mind, money, fun, etc. By focusing on the goal and visualizing yourself achieving that end result can help to remove any doubts you have about beginning the project and going through the process of achieving the goal.

9. Use a timer. Set a timer for 30 minutes and begin a task. Setting a time limit will help you focus on the task at hand, curb daydreaming and motivate you to complete the work. And once you have started the task, you may find yourself becoming absorbed in what you are doing and continue with it rather than stopping when the 30 minutes is over.

10. One common cause of procrastination is perfectionism. It is important to understand and remember that no one and nothing is perfect. Thinking that you must do the job perfectly on the first try will likely prevent you from ever getting started. This expectation creates stress, anxiety and the fear of failure. Keep in mind that you are a human and that being perfect tends to lead to procrastination and that it is perfectly O.K. to not get the project done perfectly. Instead of striving for perfection, aim for progress.

by Maria Gracia - Get Organized Now!™
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Thursday, June 19, 2008

Drowning in Clutter? Organization to the Rescue!

Are you feeling like you are drowning in clutter? Are you overwhelmed by the sheer volume of stuff you find all around you? Don't despair! There is hope. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and (surprise!) it isn't a train.

With a few simple steps, and dedicated time, you can be free of the stuff you are drowning in. Follow along as we show you how organization can come to the rescue.

1. The very first step is to eliminate the clutter. No matter how hard we try, we cannot organize clutter. So, begin by putting your plan down on paper. Try to be as specific as possible. For example, instead of something generic like 'declutter family room,' try targeting areas in the room. For example; 'sort toys and donate outgrown, throw away broken.' By breaking down large areas into more specific targets, you have turned an impossible overwhelming job into a manageable piece. You don't get overwhelmed before you even start.

2. When you are ready to start on your first area, gather three boxes or large black plastic bags. Label one box 'trash,' one box 'donate' and the third box 'keep.' Now it is time to start the decluttering process. Be ruthless as you sort. If an item isn't something that you can say without hesitation that you love AND use, it should be donated or sold if it's usable, or trashed if it's broken and would be more expensive to repair than replace.

3. Sometimes when it comes to clearing out clutter, we get bogged down by sentimentality. It may help to remember that the object is not the memory. Regardless of whether you have the item or not, you have the memory. If you just can't bear to part with your great aunt's collection of lace hankies, don't store them away in a box to rot. Display them. They can be artfully arranged in shadow boxes and hung on the wall as art. Be creative and ENJOY these precious items. Don't hide them away in boxes.

4. It's important to remember to keep this purge process manageable. Don't try to do a marathon session or you'll end up overwhelmed again. Remember that you didn't get this way instantly and it won't be resolved instantly. Be realistic about the amount of time you have available to work. Even if all you have is 15 minutes to spare, you can still follow your plan and eliminate the clutter. Each step forward is a step closer to being decluttered and organized.

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5. At the end of each declutter session, take the bags or boxes of trash out to the trash and the bags or boxes of donate items out to your car to be taken to Goodwill or Salvation Army or similar charitable organizations. Be sure to inventory your donations and to get a receipt wherever you drop them off so that you can take the deduction on your income taxes.

6. Sometimes we get excited about being organized and rush out to buy containers before we even finish decluttering. Resist this urge until you have finished the decluttering process. This way you will know exactly what you have left that you are keeping, and will know exactly what and how many containers you will, or won't need to purchase. You may find that you have no need for new containers, because you have done such a great job of decluttering. Storing what you have kept may already be covered by the storage you currently have.

7. Once you have successfully removed the clutter, you can start your organizing plan. The first step is to take the items in your keep bag (or box) and start sorting them by room. Don't limit yourself to the 'prescribed' rooms. For instance, if you find that you use scissors in several rooms, why only store them in the office? Store things where you use them. The best system for staying organized is the one that works in your situation and the one that you actually use. Make it 'user friendly' and you're much more likely to continue and stay organized and decluttered.

8. Now that you have decluttered and organized what you kept, one very simple rule will keep your head above water on the clutter. You'll not just tread water. You'll be floating with your iced tea in hand! This simple rule is very easy to adopt and follow. What is this simple rule? It is this--for every one thing you bring into your home to stay, one thing must go out. This way, you keep ahead of the clutter and never have to worry about drowning in it again.

9. Sometimes, in spite of our best efforts, life gets in the way and we get a bit behind again. It does not mean that we resign ourselves to living our lives drowning in clutter. It does mean that you have the tools and expertise to get back on top of things. You have already been through the decluttering process and know what you need to do to get back on top of the clutter. Just take it step by step and before you know it, you'll be clutter free and organized again.

by Maria Gracia - Get Organized Now!™
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10 Things God Won't Ask You












3 Hadiths To Remember

1 - Our Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) says, "If a person recites 'Ayatul Qursi after every Salah (prayer) then there will be nothing between him & heaven except death."

2 - "ﻭﻻ ﺣﻮﻝ ﻭﻻ ﻗﻮﺓ ﺇﻻ ﺑﺎﻟﻠﻪ ﺍﻟﻌﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻌﻈﻴﻢ" (wa la haula wa la quwwata illa billah hil 'aliyyul 'azheem) is such a great medicine that it cures every disease. The most minor disease it cures is sorrow.

3 - If a person recites Surah Al-Ikhlas 10 times in a day then Allah builds a palace for him in the Heavens. **Subhanallah**

Spreading knowledge is a wonderful thing... It is the duty of every Muslim to spread their knowledge, even if it is only equivalent to a drop of water.

Have a great day!

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Laying Out The Foundations


I've always been fascinated by homeschooling. The fact that the child gets to learn at their own pace, exploring at their own leisure, not having the need to succumb to pressures from school mates & teachers. It's a great thing.

The constant closeness that you as a parent get while being close with your child throughout the day is undeniably wonderful. You are with them every step of the way. That's why when I was younger I wished for the day that I would get the chance to homeschool my own children.

You get to tend to them when they really need you to be around. When they discover new things you are the first to hear of it... "Mummy, mummy look what I've found!".

I am grateful to be given this opportunity. I may not be the best parent but I know I want to give the best for my children.

Homeschooling is such an amazing experience.

I am just starting out. Still in the initial stages. Even as adults we are always constantly learning new things. Acquiring knowledge is an ongoing thing.

Wish me luck. I am so excited to finally be able to go on full speed ahead!

Have a great day,

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Any Malaysian Expatriates Out There Homeschooling?

For the past few days I've been going through some websites as well as blogs about homeschooling in Malaysia.

I came across a forum on Malaysians homeschooling. I could not help but notice there was a debate going on about whether homeschooling is legal or not in Malaysia.

Being a homeschooling mom myself I was just wondering what about expatriates living in Malaysia who decide that they want to homeschool their children. Is it legal for them as well? Do they need special approval from any associations to homeschool their children.

I also can't help but notice that there are more non-muslim associations for homeschooling than there are for muslims. As far as I know, homeschooling is greatly encouraged in a muslim household. It is much more preferred to homeschool than it is to send the children off to school. But I can hardly find any specific muslim homeschooling communities in Malaysia. Where are they?

I'd love to hear your comments on this. So do leave your comments ayt!

I Am A Canna ?!?


You Are a Canna


"You stand up for what you believe in, even if it gets in the way of what other people think. You are proud of yourself and your accomplishments and you enjoy letting people know that."





I just took this test from This Garden Is Illegal. I found out I am a Canna. A what?! Never heard of the flower / plant whatever you choose to call it. Interesting what the commentary says about my personality. *haha*

Why not give the quiz a shot? It's quite short, find out what flower you are! Click here.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Chickpea, Sweet Potato & Spinach Curry

Great to eat with basmati rice, flavoured with cardamom & ghee.

Ingredients:

- 1 tbsp sunflower oil
- 1 red onion, finely sliced
- 2 small red chilies, finely sliced, with seeds
- 1 bunch coriander, stalks finely chopped & leaves reserved for garnish
- 2 cloves garlic, finely chopped
- 2 cinnamon sticks
- 2 small sweet potatoes, peeled & chopped into half-inch chunks
- 2 tins chopped tomatoes
- 150g cooked chickpeas
- 300g natural Greek yoghurt
- 250g leaf spinach

For roasting:
- 2 tsp cumin
- 2 tsp coriander seeds
- 2 tsp fennel seeds
- 5 whole cloves
- 5 cardamom pods


1. First, roast the spices.
2. Heat them together in a small dry pan over a medium flame until they begin to pop.
3. Set aside to cool slightly, then pound to a rough powder with a pestle & mortar.
4. Now put the oil in a pan large enough to hold all the curry ingredients.
5. Place over a medium heat & add the onion, chillies, chopped coriander, garlic, roasted spices & cinnamon sticks.
6. Gently cook until the onions have sweated and the spices have released a heady aroma (about 10 minutes).
7. Season with a little salt & add the sweet potatoes.
8. Cook for a further 5 minutes & then add the tomatoes.
9. Place the lid on the pan, turn down the heat & cook for 20 minutes.
10. Once the sweet potatoes are tender, add the chickpeas and yoghurt.
11. When heated through, add the spinach, stirring it in as you do so, until it has just wilted.
12. Check for seasoning & garnish with the reserved coriander leaves.

Serves 4-6.


My Poor Computer

You might all have been wondering where in the world did i disappear to.

My poor computer was down with a bad case of "infectious electronic flu". I couldn't go online a couple of days.

Sad, yeah I know. But hey now I'm back and I'll keep on posting...

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Cooking Dried Chickpeas


- Soak them overnight in water with a pinch of bicarbonate of soda.

- When you are ready to cook, rinse them, then place in a large saucepan with cold water (about 1 litre per 100g chickpeas).

- Bring to the boil, then gently simmer, skimming off any scum as it builds up, for about 90 minutes, or until tender.

- Season at this point (never salt pulses before they are tender as this can prevent them from softening at all).


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